NEW YORK — It used to just be his office. But two years ago Carnegie East House Assisted Living Center became Joe Girven’s permanent address. Not typically the place for an active 57-year-old.
“I made a promise to myself that none of our residents would die from the virus," Girven stated. "And my response was: That to do that, I need to be here.”
With 13 years of experience as Executive Director, Girven knew that when the pandemic swept through New York, cutting out his commute from White Plains would keep everyone safer.
“Joe literally lived with a bed and a television set and spent most of his time in his office. And what kind of a life is that. He literally sacrificed and dedicated his life to us,” said Nancy Ledger, a 15-year resident of Carnegie East Houses.
For Girven it was a choice, but for the 65 others who call this center home, it was a gift.
“I wanted to step up and do my part to keep them alive and safe,” said Girven.
Overnight, Girven took on new responsibilities. He became the 24/7 IT guy and the party planner. Clocking in for far more than 8 hours to help with TV issues, iPad problems and phone malfunctions for a generation that was raised in a simpler time.
“I treat all of the residents like they’re my family members," said Girven. "And that’s, what I think, makes this place so very special.”
In the two years most of the world would define as “harrowing” within these four walls different words were used.
“Very peaceful. The whole atmosphere here I’m sure is due to him,” Toni Brown commented with a smile.
Though social distancing and safety precautions made things challenging, Girven made sure birthdays were celebrated and Facetime calls with loved ones happened regularly. And during the quiet times, he was always around with a smile and an ear to listen.
“And Joe gave us all of his time. He didn’t even take any vacation,” said Brown.
With COVID-19 cases at a new low, things are almost back to normal. Girven is grateful to be coming out the other side of the pandemic without a single COVID death in his facility.
“It was more than a blessing. Joe has saved our lives in the last three years,” said Ledger.
So, for moving in to make a difference, Joe Girven is our latest New Yorker of the Week.